Oh do I dare to dream

I had the first really, really good, efficient and pleasant sugar date on Monday. I met a local potential SD who has had an arrangement before and what a wonderfully easy experience for me it was! He knew exactly what to say and reply to my questions, he made the allowance talk as comfortable for me as possible and he didn't make anything feel dirty or unpleasant. Talking about the money part was a breeze as opposed to the wannabe potentials I have met before. No need to explain it all from the beginning, wheww. And he loved me and I really liked him. And we're meeting again on Friday night and I'm taking my toothbrush along. Let's call him MrGold as he's blond. More to come, hopefully!

MrEccentric is still in the picture, he makes me so horny by just talking shit. Who knows what comes out of this, but I am going to see it through. Just because... I feel like flying.. floating on the sea with no horizon on sight... wanting to do cartwheels... I want to take the ends of a circle, step in and close it.

Bluer than velvet was the night, Softer than satin was the light

MrAccent came to see me, we had a wonderful dinner at one of the best restaurants in town, kissed a bit in his nice boutique hotel room and then I left. No sugar, no sex. And then he disappeared. Whatevs.

Then there is this man I probably haven't mentioned in the blog before, let's call him MrEccentric for now. We talked for quite a bit last summer and then I decided to let him go, but now he's back. He's in south of France on his yact at the moment and is feeling the itch to move on, it's getting cold in Europe. We haven't talked for 3 months but everything is the same. The chemistry, the feeling of knowing each other since the beginning of time, talking in metaphors, getting restless and talking of nothing on the phone for hours. His voice gets me wet.. haven't masturbated this much since.. never?

This whole thing reminds me of how I met my ex-boyfriend. We met online and for a reason just chatted online for maybe two months. The chemistry was amazing, it was like a drug. When we finally met, it was love at first sight, fireworks and abandonment of everything else. It lasted for 4 years until we both were burnt out on the love and passion. The sex was incredible till the last night we spent together, us both crying through sweaty panting climax as we knew it was the last one together.

So, I don't now.. meeting MrEccentric could be a disaster leaving me burnt, or it could be a mind blowing, life changing chance of... everything I have ever wanted. Isn't it funny how you become hesitant when you are offered the world and adventures you have always dreamt of?

PS Oh well, gotta confess, me and the ex met a couple of times after the break up just for sex...

Eeny meeny miny mo

The date with Mr Germany went ok. Nothing spectacular, he wanted to walk from his hotel to the restaurant. Ok nice, except the hotel was not in the city center. I made him take the subway. Should've known this is not going to be good. I showed him some sights on the way and during dinner we politely talked about travelling and the cities we have visited so far. Definitely no sparks flying and he got drunk after having half a bottle of wine? Seriously =D I'm not a drunk, but I do like my quality wine. And after dinner, more walking. Thank gawd I wasn't wearing my highest heels! I started to feel a bit exasperated and the final blow was him telling me about these great hotels deals he always gets on Priceline. Thank you, good night & take care.

After I got home a potential SD from London (income £+1M, net worth £+1M) called and things started to look more positive once again. He travels constantly and sometimes needs a lovely companion to share the experiences and some witty conversation. In his first email he had asked what would I want to do and I gave him 3 of my most exotic wishes for travel. Oh well, he has done them all =D Now he's checking the best place in Europe for us to meet and he himself noted that he will get me my own hotel room, first date is just for us to get know each other. Let's hope he delivers!

There are couple of other potentials as well, but I'll get back to them if need be, they need some gentle coaxing about the allowance in general... yeah, they're British ;D

Wow, he was quick...

I had e-mailed with this American man in Germany for couple of days, just exchanging the preliminary info, hobbies, likes etc. Then he suddenly says this is all so nice to chat online, but I would like to talk to you in person. Ok I think we'll talk on the phone later, but then the next day I have a message: "I'd like to take you to dinner next weekend, I'll be in your city on Friday". Ummmm okay. So now I have a sugar date on Saturday!

It's all nice and everything, I would learn a thing or two from him, but I'm not 100 % sure he's a SD for me. He has some not so normal characteristics, but seems really normal and easy to get along with nonetheless. I'm a bit worried I'm too materialistic and airhead for him =D Plus he's more of a travel daddy and I really would prefer an allowance daddy. But I'll keep an open mind, I would LOOOOVE to be able to travel all over the Europe, and that's his plan, to see and explore all the cities in Europe.

So, on Saturday we'll see if we have any chemistry! And if nothing else, he can tick off one city from his list.

Stretching languorously...

Mmmm what a lovely Sunday. Just got back home from a date with MrEnergy. He is one of those who replied to my latest ad (PPP) and in his message described an arrangement. He's 57, lives some 400 kilometres away, travels extensively and is a true gentleman.

We met for drinks in a bar and when he saw me, his smile told it all, it's a deal. He had a colleague with him, but we made it look like we just met at the bar when MrEnergy was fetching more drinks. Maybe he figured it out, who knows, but he was a charming fellow, too. After a while we went to another bar that was quite empty, so me and MrEnergy started talking about going to another venue that's surely packed, thinking we could just slip out unnoticed in the crowd. Colleague had already set his eyes on some gorgeous brunette, so he just waved his hand to us. Clean getaway =)

We walked to his hotel hand in hand and spent a romantic and passionate night together. He treated me like a queen, everything was for my enjoyment. Well I have nothing against that =) In the morning we said goodbyes and he was sure we'll meet again, "I could not have imagined what would I find answering that ad, you are so charming and this feels so natural and right". I kissed him the last time, winked and put on my sunglasses.

I consider this wad of bills my first sugar. I love living in a greyscale world.

Still alive and kicking with hints of sugar in the air

Well, not exactly kicking, but feeling optimistic (have I said that many times already and nothing ever materializes?). Oh well, it's summer, it's two weeks until my summer holiday (4 weeks of absolutely no plans), I got a big raise at work and I have 4 potentials lined up.

Met a 60 year old consultant last night for drinks. He's very charming and polite, but the question of sugar is still out in the open. He wants us to get to know each other better first (yeah right) and when we are sure this would be a long term affair, then maybe we can go shopping together. I'm afraid he thinks just buying me dinners and cooking for me at my place equals as sugar, so I might have to *next* him. Too bad as he really was fun to be with and he could be my mentor as well, as he works in a field that I'm involved. I'll probably have dinner with him the following week to have a serious talk.

Then there's this 36 year old businessman, who loves older women and has some sexual preferences that his wife won't tolerate. And it's nothing more than coming on my face (I actually like it), where do these women come from? We're meeting next week as he doesn't live in my city. That's a good thing as then we can meet at his hotel and not at my place. That's one thing I don't like about the local guys, they think it's a given that I host them and I'm a bit uncomfortable with that...

Tomorrow I'm meeting a CEO of a family owned company with net revenue close to 150 million euros (that's quite ok by local standards). He's looking for a wife and he sure as hell can afford one staying at home, as he actually owns the whole company! Yes, he's a grand-grandson of the founder.

And then the best one, a hottie 50something in Paris. I'm probably jinxing the whole thing, but I MIGHT be going to Paris tomorrow and he understands completely that I'm not having sex with him and want my own pre-paid hotel room. Oh the dream, again. He could teach me French, I would get to explore the city with a local guide and the allowance... 3000 euros + generous shopping for meetings twice a month. I'm just hoping he's as charming as he sounds on the phone and doesn't poof =) Keep your fingers crossed, please!

Oh yes and I have found the joy of sugar hunting IRL! Earlier this week I went out with a friend to this local bar very well known as the hunting place for the older folks ;) And oh boy was there sugar all over! Older foreign men in sharp suits! So we're going back next week and with sharpened nails. Beware the sugar starved lady! =D

Gardening and a fast food empire? Yes, please...

Just got home from a quick coffee date with the local potental, who is looking for a wife. Let's call him PastaPot, as I'm pretty sure I'll have more to tell about him in the future. He's 40something with a small pot belly and he owns one the largest fast food chains in my country. He doesn't travel that much to need a companion, he's not working 24/7 anymore and when I asked what duties would I have as his wife, he said "oh well, it would be nice to have someone to take long walks with, go to the gym, travel occasionally to somewhere warm and to take care of the large garden that is quite neglected now". Okay, that sounds reasonable =D

I felt very relaxed with him and he laughed at my jokes (always a good sign). We talked like old pals and even started planning how his company could use Facebook in marketing, love impressing the guys with my ideas. And we are meeting for dinner next week. I'm keeping my fingers crossed!

First date and an arrangement on the making!

SmoothieSD e-mailed yesterday, he had forgotten his cellphone in the office, that's why I couldn't reach him the other day. Our date on Monday went very well (despite his bad breath), we just laughed and talked about the serious stuff. He was so easy to be with and the things we would do together fit my bill exactly. So we talked again on the phone yesterday evening and set up a date for next week to start the arrangement! Wohoo! No more talk about a free testdrive or being exclusive, he just wants me to be honest with him. He thinks I'm the sexiest woman he's met for some time, always a good thing to say to a woman ;) I can't wait, he got me all hot & bothered on the phone, he sure knows how to talk to me... We'll talk more on the weekend, let's hope he doesn't back out then. But I'm optimistic, he seems to be honest and sincere. But oh my, if this goes through, I'M IN AN ARRANGEMENT!

The new potential I met in a chat room on Monday and had lunch with yesterday, was one of those guys that I'm not sure what to think. Let's call him Shortie, as he was shorter than me and I'm 5'5", but he had a BMW convertible and I'm a sucker for convertibles.. He dressed a bit flashy and I myself am quite a subtle dresser, but that probably can be handled with a bit of shopping together. We hit it off nicely and he was genuinely interested about me and what would we do together. He could teach me to golf and take me sailing next summer (too bad I'm afraid of water...). We'll talk more later this week, let's see how my perception of him might change. Oh the car... *sigh*

Would I be too picky and plain silly if I dumped Shortie because of his height or Smoothie because of bad breath, even if everything else checks out?

Lunch with TallBlondSD

Just wow. It was so worth the wait... He was just as amazing and polite as I imagined, if not even more so. Very handsome and distinguised with a charming smile. I was greeted with cheek kisses and got his business card, and the conversation was light and flowing from the beginning. We talked about our hopes and interests, he talked very openly about his businesses. And now I understand what a mentor really means. He fits the bill perfectly. Our expectations for an arrangement were similar, basically he needs a special someone with whom to learn how to relax, talk about everything under the sun and someone to feel passionate about.

Before departing, he expressed his wish to get to know me better and to talk how to proceed, so we'll set up a date for later this week or early next week. He definitely left me shaken and stirred. And waiting for more... Just wow.

HottieSD

So on February 25th I met my first potential-SD for lunch, let's call him HottieSD. He's 44, medium height, bald (shaven, not the natural version, heh) and works for an US company situated in my hometown and travels a lot. The second we saw each other, we just smiled and started talking. This can't be so easy?? We have a similar sense of humour, I teased him a bit to see how he reacts and he blushes ;) He was sorry he didn't bring his CV, but I promised to get his criminal records from the police (j/k). He suggested taking me to Denmark with him on the last week of March. Then we just stared at each others eyes and smile, and both comment that this can't be true.

I made it clear he's not gonna get into my knickers before we have discussed the arrangement and he agrees. He was leaving on a business trip next day, so we schedule the next meeting after he's back in town. He promises to e-mail me when he's settled in the hotel and I kiss him goodbye on the cheek. He blushes again. Gotta love that!