Sunday, January 16, 2011
Still waiting... waiting....
Ok I'm pretty annoyed at the moment. Yeah haha the perfect time to blog =) Things with MrEccentric are going nowhere. Now he's tied up with some emergency stuff in another part of the world. All our plans fall apart and WE STILL HAVE NOT MET! I'm this close to saying goodbye and he knows it. We have had some serious discussions about the situation, but still both of us would want to see it till the end. Even if it is killing us. I have mixed feelings as we didn't meet on a sugar site, so basically how to bring up the subject of money? As in I'm pretty much spending all my extra money on phone bills, so now I've started to only email him as that costs me nothing even on my mobile. He says he'll take care of me, but obviously not before we actually are together. So far I have only hinted on my situation and if he starts asking about "why only emails", I'll just say it as it is. Let's see his reaction then. I haven't searched for sugar for couple of months, thank you MrFckingEccentric, but placed an ad yesterday. A girl has to do what a girl has to do. And once again local men leave me baffled. So I am not a professional, I am a lady looking for a generous boyfriend who would take care of me because I want to spend time with him and make him happy. And they think I deserve less than an escort? WTF? I would dedicate my time just for you and you expect me to be happy with a pittance compared to the professional, who has sex with tens if not hundreds of men every month? Sorry if I get annoyed, but seriously?!?! WTF is the logic of that?
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I totally agree with you! I'm soooo tired of cheap men! I think I have PMS (Pissed off at Men syndrome) lol
Girl, we've all been there :-( My current SD, T & Co., I met in RL, and when we initally met I had a 400 text msg plan. We went above and beyond that our first month of knowing each other...I let him know, that our communication has caused my phone bill to be almost $200 more. He, as a gentleman offered, and we hadn't even discussed a SB/SD relationship yet.
IMHO, a gentleman should offer to help, especially if he knows you are in need financially and he has the means. Are you sure he isn't just stringing you along? It seems like awhile and you still haven't met or gotten anything...OR did I miss an entry?
Ok, look please learn from my mistake. Get a google voice account..Calls are free & text messages are free.
Next, I've learned from experience that your time is money and you can't let them waste your time. Tell him what you need. If he doesnt give you money after asking then he never was to begin with (experience).
I havent had a chance to blog about canada a complete waste of my time.
Men tend to like a women who's had a S.D. before...so tell them that you've had 1 (just remember your story).
We have all been there and still go through it...its a part of the sugar bowl.
If u met him on a sugar site U should have even more confidence to ask.
Ive had guy that Ive met on sugar sites who dont want to be daddies but my boyfriend withut coughing up the $$$$. Dont let them waste your time. I think a real daddie acts on the chemistry...because it can fizzle fast.
So, dont be affraid to ask. Its easier to ask over the phone or via email then in person.
Get a paypal account and email him the account info.
thats a great test to see if he serious. If hes serious then u'll have money in your account..if not then u have to get back to your sugar hunt :(
Always keep more then 1 sugar because they can flake so quickly and u'll be financially thrown off.
I hope this helps :)
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