We met for drinks in a bar and when he saw me, his smile told it all, it's a deal. He had a colleague with him, but we made it look like we just met at the bar when MrEnergy was fetching more drinks. Maybe he figured it out, who knows, but he was a charming fellow, too. After a while we went to another bar that was quite empty, so me and MrEnergy started talking about going to another venue that's surely packed, thinking we could just slip out unnoticed in the crowd. Colleague had already set his eyes on some gorgeous brunette, so he just waved his hand to us. Clean getaway =)
We walked to his hotel hand in hand and spent a romantic and passionate night together. He treated me like a queen, everything was for my enjoyment. Well I have nothing against that =) In the morning we said goodbyes and he was sure we'll meet again, "I could not have imagined what would I find answering that ad, you are so charming and this feels so natural and right". I kissed him the last time, winked and put on my sunglasses.
I consider this wad of bills my first sugar. I love living in a greyscale world.
2 comments:
I'm glad you had a safe, fun, cash-filled first meeting :-) It'd be wonderful if he develops into a regular.
I like that you are asking for top-tier rates and give an excellent first impression. If you keep going this way, your name could spread via word of mouth and net you a stable crop of affluent regulars. In the beginning it might take some time, but it could provide a very lucrative outcome.
I personally see this shift as more courtesan than sugarbaby (as you wish to only cater to an elite few). When I think about it, that's not a bad thing. To me, that title comes with more substance and less flakiness in the minds of many men. Plus as you wish to see fewer men than an escort in the classical sense normally would, you are not spreading yourself thin and can offer them a more quality time. Makes better sense to me now. Good for you!
As you are doing this independently, do you have access to the blacklists and how do you screen these men?
Eden, you got my idea exactly! I like to define myself as a courtesan, I am older than the SBs normally are, I do not offer fun and frolics per se, but intelligent and elegant companionship (not saying the SBs are not doing that as well). Plus I do have my day job, so the elite few are quite enough to keep me busy and offer enough assistance I need.
Up here in my neck of woods safety is almost given, most men are so genuine I have no trouble trusting them. And of course I don't answer calls from hidden numbers, in the preliminary correspondence I ask about their job (many actually give their work e-mail and phone number, so it's super easy to check), I never go straight to a hotel room and make it perfectly clear to them that unless they make me feel safe during the drinks/dinner or whatever we do first, nothing's gonna happen.
Thankfully those perverts and otherwise unwanted are silly enough to be illiterate or otherwise sound schetchy (sp) on the phone, as I always want to talk on the phone before meeting.
I might have been lucky, but as a rule, if I don't think everything, even the smallest detail is ok, I'm not going to meet him. There is at least one website for sex workers in this country that might have blacklists, but I haven't signed in.. I don't know, somehow I cannot compare myself myself to those doing it by hourly rates and as the only income, and somehow I believe they do not cater for the elite few...
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