Oh why, thank you, ma'am

I'm all smiles. Yes The day has FINALLY arrived, I am in an arrangement! Daaamn that took long, though... Mr Gold is an amazing man, so attentive, so open and so easy to be with. The conversation just flows... Our date last night started with him handing out my allowance for November in full, a nice dinner and then more wine and flirting at his place. And the hottest, wettest make out session for a while =D Boy is he good with his tongue! I should give him an allowance for making me come and come and come and... oooh.

He travels quite a bit for pleasure, so I suspect there will be some of it in store for me, too. And as a good SD, he won't allow me to pay for anything when we are together, that's something he said already on our first date. Next date is in two weeks and as agreed, either he will give me shopping money or we go shopping together. Hmmm what do I really need... a new computer maybe?

Even if all this (and Mr Eccentric, grrrrrr him) goes nice and smooth, a girl must be vigilant. I still have 4-5 potentials with whom I'm scheduling first dates. They are all out of towners, so it takes a bit of planning. I seem to have found the right combination of sugar and money for the local potentials. Or is it the pheromones that are wafting into the air because of Mr E...?

What ever the reason, I have gotten completely different response to my search. Will keep you updated how it all developes. But right now I'm just super happy about Mr Gold! Have a wonderful weekend, my fellow sugars!

Yayyy, HottieSD delivers!

And just as he promised, we have been e-mailing and texting while he has been abroad. He's very interested in meeting me for finalizing the deal. He was a bit eager to talk about sex, but I kept it very professional (oops not the best expression) and didn't get into any steamy e-mailing. Just explained my preferences and lo and behold, we definitely have one thing in common. He got super excited after that, but hasn't said a word about his budget, but I'll wait for the next meeting for that.

Even though the allowance is one of my motivations for this search, it is not the main motivation. I'm looking for the right chemistry, for the right person to have a meaningful NSA relationship. We have a definitive connection, so I can only hope we come to good terms with the arrangement. He wants to meet regularly and take me with him on his travels, and that would suit me fine. I love travelling!

The tricky art of allowance

As I realized the arrangement really could come true with HottieSD, I started to panic about the allowance discussion. I know the formula, rent + bills + some extra, but what then. What about if he wants to see me twice a week? What about this and that... I know what sum would cover my living expences, I have read the blogs, searched the archives and still I'm stumped. Thankfully Lily helped me out again. All I can do carefully ask about his budget and go from there. I can't be too greedy as it might drive him away and I really would prefer a longterm arrangement. Once again, the chemistry has to be there, otherwise I couldn't be with him anyway. I'm not starving, so I don't need to be desperate for money.

So I did what I always do when in doubt, I take my notebook and write down a plan. Once a week = xxxx euros, twice a week = xxxx euros, and so on. This really cleared my head and I can confidently talk about money with the pots. And yes, I shredded the pages =)