New beginnings

It's been a while... Since the last post I've actively searched for sugar, enjoyed the summer, gotten tired of the search, sworn to quit sugarworld, got back on track, got a new local SB-friend, worked my ass out in the gym, and so on. There has been some nice potentials, but I don't know... Not gonna bore you with those sad stories =) Then I decided to try another way of approaching the locals. Yes, the notorious pay per play.

Someone on SA-blog just said that the British guys really don't grasp the idea of regular sugar and the same thing is a problem here, or at least I'm not succeeding. So why not make it sound like PPP, but make it sugar. I did a research on an escort site to check out their rates and then put up an ad on a local site in the lines of "do you visit the town regularly for business, why not get a girlfriend to spend some quality time with to make the trips more pleasurable with dinners, theatre and so on". And lo and behold, I have gotten tons of answers and they all want an ongoing relationship that can only be described as an arrangement! Tadaa, you can't change the players, so tweak your strategy to attract the target group, silly me for not doing that before.

So far there are no dates set, just couple of promising potentials that are very interested. I will definitely keep you posted how this pans out. But now I'm off to e-mail a potential SD in Amsterdam =) weekends in the South of France and Spain, oooh yes, please...

Adventure on my mind

Yesterday the train back home was full and we decided to stand at the bar for the whole 2 hours journey. And I remembered a dream I hopefully can fulfill one day. A journey on The Orient Express! I have always loved Agatha Christie's novels and how the mysteries more often than not happened on an exotic journey or location. So perhaps a cruise on the Nile, too? Weekend at the luxurious English castle turned into a spa? A girl can dream... Slowly, but surely I'm collecting all the books she's written.

HottieSD e-mailed me after I thought he had poofed, he's still interested but the next meet will happen around Easter. Quite obviously that arrangement could be turned into travelling adventures, as the whole world is his playground and he never has time when he's in town. So I'll be patient.

What are dreaming about right now?

Oh the never ending needs

With the goal on my mind (the debt, the debt..), I still make wishlists in my mind. I love lists and have countless lists and plans in my notebook, so why not show one of them to you.

The needs of this wannabe SB
- a new bed: the old one is too old and squeeky
- lamps and area rugs to my apartment: I shouldn't ignore my surroundings even if I hate the place
- gym membership: haven't gone to the gym for ages, so now is the time to rekindle this love, maybe I'll get membership to one of the VIP gyms in town
- dentist appointment: I really need to check my teeth and preferably have them whitened
- digital camera to take with me on my numerous trips with my SD ;)
- new mobile phone: I need to be available in style, right
- sunglasses with prescription lenses

Let's talk about the shoes a bit later =)

Smoothie decided to poof after our first meet yesterday. Or who knows did he poof or not, but later when I tried calling at the time we agreed on, his cell phone was off. And now he's sending texts like ";)". One thing that irked me was him insisting a test drive before the arrangement. He would have paid for my time, but that would have been too "escorty" to my liking. And his breath smelled bad, he really should see a dentist...

TallBlond has probably poofed, not a word since my latest message confirming my wish to meet him again, too.

Hottie has disappeared, as well. This disappoints me the most, I really thought we had a connection, but he himself maybe got fed up with his own timetables constantly changing and having to postpone our second meet time after time. If he resurfaces, I'll greet him warmly and with open arms (almost said thighs, but ahem)...

But all is well in this sugar home, I'm on my way to meet a new potential, he's quite handsome, divorced and sounded very charming on the phone. I'll report about that later.

What is the most urgent/needed materialistic thing on your list?