Sunday, July 25, 2010
New beginnings
It's been a while... Since the last post I've actively searched for sugar, enjoyed the summer, gotten tired of the search, sworn to quit sugarworld, got back on track, got a new local SB-friend, worked my ass out in the gym, and so on. There has been some nice potentials, but I don't know... Not gonna bore you with those sad stories =) Then I decided to try another way of approaching the locals. Yes, the notorious pay per play. Someone on SA-blog just said that the British guys really don't grasp the idea of regular sugar and the same thing is a problem here, or at least I'm not succeeding. So why not make it sound like PPP, but make it sugar. I did a research on an escort site to check out their rates and then put up an ad on a local site in the lines of "do you visit the town regularly for business, why not get a girlfriend to spend some quality time with to make the trips more pleasurable with dinners, theatre and so on". And lo and behold, I have gotten tons of answers and they all want an ongoing relationship that can only be described as an arrangement! Tadaa, you can't change the players, so tweak your strategy to attract the target group, silly me for not doing that before. So far there are no dates set, just couple of promising potentials that are very interested. I will definitely keep you posted how this pans out. But now I'm off to e-mail a potential SD in Amsterdam =) weekends in the South of France and Spain, oooh yes, please...
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An interesting angle. But I wonder: while in practice you are tweaking things to secure an arrangement, don't you think that those men will still adopt the escort-client mentality? It's possible that the perception of being a service provider could have a huge impact on how things follow through. Nevertheless, I'd be very interested to see how you get on, and wish you oodles of luck!
That's an interesting point you bring up Eden. At the same time in my numerous Pot dates...the guys all have a varying view on how often or not often they'd like to be in contact via email & phone outside of the bedroom. So, I would assume if you are okay with pay for play, and you both have the same definition just a different word. I mean, you say tomato, I say tomahto...we both know what we're talking about. We're adults...Keep us up-to-date on how it plays out. I am quite interested on this strategy, as well.
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Butterfly
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interesting! please keep us updated.
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I think it's ok... once you establish a relationship with them over a month or two.You can maybe just suggest that they just turn ppp into an allowance. They should be hooked and comfortable by then.
You girls have valid points, I think I'll make a new blog about this matter, as I hate these small comments boxes =)
Eden, true about the service provider angle, but in my experience out here, those looking for a girlfriend/arrangement, are not gonna give any money, to them dinners and such should be enough and the amazing sex they would provide, should make me happy. Yeah right =D
Butterfly, it's exactly the tomato/tomahto -situation, in my reply I described an arrangement (long term, chemistry etc) and they all love it, they just have a different name for it than us.
Princess, will do and I can't wait for your updates =)
Dionne, exactly! They all are looking for LTR and I'm definitely not gonna hook up with creeps, so we'll see...
yes yes keep us updated love. just starting to follow now.. good for u for changing tactics to achieve goals. please stay safe!! x3
Sunshine, thank you, will do, both =D
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