Adventure on my mind

Yesterday the train back home was full and we decided to stand at the bar for the whole 2 hours journey. And I remembered a dream I hopefully can fulfill one day. A journey on The Orient Express! I have always loved Agatha Christie's novels and how the mysteries more often than not happened on an exotic journey or location. So perhaps a cruise on the Nile, too? Weekend at the luxurious English castle turned into a spa? A girl can dream... Slowly, but surely I'm collecting all the books she's written.

HottieSD e-mailed me after I thought he had poofed, he's still interested but the next meet will happen around Easter. Quite obviously that arrangement could be turned into travelling adventures, as the whole world is his playground and he never has time when he's in town. So I'll be patient.

What are dreaming about right now?

Oh the never ending needs

With the goal on my mind (the debt, the debt..), I still make wishlists in my mind. I love lists and have countless lists and plans in my notebook, so why not show one of them to you.

The needs of this wannabe SB
- a new bed: the old one is too old and squeeky
- lamps and area rugs to my apartment: I shouldn't ignore my surroundings even if I hate the place
- gym membership: haven't gone to the gym for ages, so now is the time to rekindle this love, maybe I'll get membership to one of the VIP gyms in town
- dentist appointment: I really need to check my teeth and preferably have them whitened
- digital camera to take with me on my numerous trips with my SD ;)
- new mobile phone: I need to be available in style, right
- sunglasses with prescription lenses

Let's talk about the shoes a bit later =)

Smoothie decided to poof after our first meet yesterday. Or who knows did he poof or not, but later when I tried calling at the time we agreed on, his cell phone was off. And now he's sending texts like ";)". One thing that irked me was him insisting a test drive before the arrangement. He would have paid for my time, but that would have been too "escorty" to my liking. And his breath smelled bad, he really should see a dentist...

TallBlond has probably poofed, not a word since my latest message confirming my wish to meet him again, too.

Hottie has disappeared, as well. This disappoints me the most, I really thought we had a connection, but he himself maybe got fed up with his own timetables constantly changing and having to postpone our second meet time after time. If he resurfaces, I'll greet him warmly and with open arms (almost said thighs, but ahem)...

But all is well in this sugar home, I'm on my way to meet a new potential, he's quite handsome, divorced and sounded very charming on the phone. I'll report about that later.

What is the most urgent/needed materialistic thing on your list?

Perfect match SD

We all probably have an idea of a perfect SD in our heads. I've had some stupid expectations about men when younger, but nowadays I'm not that black and white anymore. The looks are not that important anymore (even though would make me weak at the knees, sure). Compatibility and similar sense of humour are way more important, but I do admit sometimes it's difficult to see behind the physical side.

I've been on too many dates that are pure agony from the second you meet. No chemistry = no nothing. I admit being a bit shallow and materialistic, so I easily condemn a person because of his style of clothes, haircut, unkempt nails etc. But now with a goal in mind, I've been a lot more open to differences without compromising anything of real importance, of course, and the chemistry is still the most important thing. Just like regular dating, you just know who's right for you.

TallBlondSD hasn't replied to my thank you note. HottieSD just sent a note saying how sorry he is that our second meeting gets postponed time after time. Next week he'll be away somewhere again, but on Friday he might be able to sneak out for drinks. Let's hope so. OlderGentSD and SF SD haven't returned my e-mails, but they're both on business trips, so I'm not going to say they've poofed (yet).

This spring will be sugary, I'm sure of it =)

Yayyy, HottieSD delivers!

And just as he promised, we have been e-mailing and texting while he has been abroad. He's very interested in meeting me for finalizing the deal. He was a bit eager to talk about sex, but I kept it very professional (oops not the best expression) and didn't get into any steamy e-mailing. Just explained my preferences and lo and behold, we definitely have one thing in common. He got super excited after that, but hasn't said a word about his budget, but I'll wait for the next meeting for that.

Even though the allowance is one of my motivations for this search, it is not the main motivation. I'm looking for the right chemistry, for the right person to have a meaningful NSA relationship. We have a definitive connection, so I can only hope we come to good terms with the arrangement. He wants to meet regularly and take me with him on his travels, and that would suit me fine. I love travelling!

HottieSD

So on February 25th I met my first potential-SD for lunch, let's call him HottieSD. He's 44, medium height, bald (shaven, not the natural version, heh) and works for an US company situated in my hometown and travels a lot. The second we saw each other, we just smiled and started talking. This can't be so easy?? We have a similar sense of humour, I teased him a bit to see how he reacts and he blushes ;) He was sorry he didn't bring his CV, but I promised to get his criminal records from the police (j/k). He suggested taking me to Denmark with him on the last week of March. Then we just stared at each others eyes and smile, and both comment that this can't be true.

I made it clear he's not gonna get into my knickers before we have discussed the arrangement and he agrees. He was leaving on a business trip next day, so we schedule the next meeting after he's back in town. He promises to e-mail me when he's settled in the hotel and I kiss him goodbye on the cheek. He blushes again. Gotta love that!